| “Never underestimate
the healing effects of beauty.”
– Florence Nightingale
Diannah Benson loves Muskoka. Deep in her bones, she knows is
it is a healing place; it has proved this to her.
She moved here,
from Toronto, to make her final recovery from seven years of
chronic fatigue syndrome. This illness, which came to light in
the early 1980s, was once called the “mystery disease.” It can be brought on by stress and, Benson notes, more women than men have been diagnosed with it. In North America, more than 500,000 people have shown chronic fatigue symptoms, which can range from headaches, tiredness, tender lymph nodes, fatigue and weakness, foggy thinking and sleeping all the time.
Benson came to Bracebridge in March 1995 to recuperate. “I had a great need to be near rock, trees and water,” she says, “and my instincts led me to Bracebridge. My family had a cottage on Lake of Bays for many years and I also rented a small log cabin on the lake during the summer for a couple of years, before moving here, to facilitate my recovery. I love Muskoka; all the water it has is incredible. Wilson’s Falls was a good place for me to go with my dog, Chablis. I find the water helped me to meditate and, in turn, to heal.”
She felt her illness was a wake-up call and, since then, has
been trained in many healing modalities and has committed her
life to helping others to live a healthy lifestyle. Softly
spoken, Benson remembers what it was like to be sick. “Being
ill was a gift, a learning opportunity that continues to this
day. I learned a lot about myself, not just physically, but
mentally and emotionally. At that time, the medical community
had no answers for chronic fatigue syndrome, so I sought answers
in the alternative health area – and found them.”
She smiles
and takes a deep breath as she looks around her healing environment. “I
needed to know about my inner self, I needed to learn how to
feel again and discover what it meant to be ‘a spiritual being
having a human experience.’When I started to understand all
of this, my life became much more enriched, fulfilled and healthier;
I learned to take a holistic approach to life –others and myself.
I started to trust my instincts to a greater degree. In 1990,
I began my studies of holistic health.”
Since 1998, Benson has
operated a natural healing, wellness and nutrition business
called “Feeling Good Jade Esthetics,” out of her home, which
she calls “Dancing Waters Healing Art Retreat.” It overlooks
the beautiful Tretheweys Falls on Hwy. 118. She loves her house
and says: “When I first came to see the house and walked in
the door, I felt I had come home. All the elements I was looking
for were here; it is close to town, has beautiful trees and
calm waters, yet the falls offer active movement and the exciting
sound of dancing waters. It all spoke to my soul.”
She called
her business Feeling Good because, she says, “After I finished
working with clients, they all said they were feeling good,
and I felt this was a message in what to name my business.”
Benson
loves her home with a passion and generously shares it with
many groups and gatherings of like-minded people, from
near and far. Her honest, honorable
intention to help people be the best they can be is demonstrated in how she
lives, on a daily basis.
She is multi-talented natural therapist – a registered
nutritional consulting practitioner, a certified aromatherapist and a Reiki
master. She includes all or some of these modalities when working with
clients. Besides working out of her Dancing Waters Retreat, Benson
will go to clients’ homes
or cottages to provide a treatment. She calls this aspect of her business “Have
Spa, will Travel.” “As a registered nutritional consultant, people come
to me for many reasons,”Benson says. “Sometimes, it is to test food substances
to find out if something they are eating is causing problems, or to find
out what environmental challenges they are having, such as trees, pollens,
molds, and get a remedy made for them.”
Benson is happy when she is talking
about her work, and her many areas of knowledge are evident. “Some people
come to see me because they are fed up with not feeling well and are
willing to find out information, even though it may mean changes in their
lives.
When I put on my nutritional hat, I assess their diet and lifestyle habits,
usually in the way of food or food combining, water and supplements.
I also suggest changes in how they talk about themselves. I give them
encouragement
to help them help themselves deal with challenges.”
These days, Benson
practices a smorgasbord of modalities. Besides being a Reiki master,
working with energy, she also uses state-of-the-art machines
to help her clients. “I use a Derma Ray, and also a unit called a Frequency
Generator, which delivers Radio Frequencies through massage wands to
the body. These are the two things that represent micro-massage. We are
electro-magnetic beings and our bodies are always trying to return to
balance,” she explains. “I play detective to find out why and how the
body is out of balance, and help to correct the imbalance.” Many people
go to her for soft tissue/muscle ache and pain relief.
“I use these methods as well as a testing device like an ‘ohmeter,’ used
for measuring skin’s resistance to see what substances, if brought
into the body’s energy field, cause it to weaken, balance or
become over stimulated. I can also use kinesiology muscle testing
or a pendulum to ascertain information.”However, she notes: “I
can stay relatively mainstream, if the client is uncomfortable
with energy testing methods. I respect the individual and the
journey. However, if asked, I will explain energy methods to
them.”
She laughs and continues: “When they discover I am genuine,
and not some kookie person, practicing way-out therapies, they
feel more comfortable to try out new methods with the potential
of helping them feel healthier. Even if it seems kookie and way-out,
it works. Feeling healthy and being free of pain are worth the
gamble into the unknown, in my estimation. I did it, and I am
grateful that I did.”
Her clients are people who have not found
pain relief through conventional methods – from such problems
as whiplash, sports injuries and long- or short-term muscle,
joint or soft tissue pain. People are taking more control over
their health these days, she has observed, and they want to use
alternative healing methods, as opposed to drugs. She works with
pain relief by finding the trigger points in people’s bodies.
“You have to realize that pain locates itself in the belly of
the muscle, and tight knots form themselves in strands of the
muscle tissue. I work with the trigger points that cause referred
pain from the muscle, and this referred pain can be elsewhere
around the body. For instance, if I was working with someone
who has carpal tunnel syndrome, I would work on the trigger points
in the shoulder and neck, which can help release the pain they
are feeling in the arms and wrists.”
She also works with people
who are overweight, have poor skin tone, fluid retention problems,
congested lymphatic systems,
or people who have parts of the
body “heading south,” which they wish to tone and firm up.
Her workroom is a fascinating place. It houses numerous machines that can
be used to tone and firm the face and body. “I offer a health spa in the
European tradition...not a beauty spa. I work from the inside out and my
motto is ‘If you feel good, you’ll look good’ – that’s were the beauty
comes in.”
She also offers hot stone massage and raindrop therapies. “I
use incredible therapeutic-grade essential oils, only the purest oils
available, to give the best results, but also for my own sake
as my hands absorb the
oils as well. I use them in a variety of ways to help release tension
and relax the body; adding the hot stones and massaging with
them further relaxes
the muscles. The heat from the stones goes deep and melts the muscles
to make it easier to release the tension and get the blood to
the surface
quicker.”
Benson becomes animated as she talks about the healing methods
she uses. “The raindrop therapy involves dropping the oils onto the
body from six inches above (the skin), to allow them to pass through
the energy
fields around the body. The oil is swept into the body through gentle
movements and also through massage and stretching; this technique is
something the Lakota Native Indians used to do.”
It is easy to see why
Benson gets a lot of clients from word of mouth and has many returning
clients, people who keep coming back after they
have
experienced these relaxing, releasing therapies.
Benson’s talents
expand into the creative realm, too. She is an artist and has been
involved with calligraphy for over 18 years. In calligraphic art
circles in Toronto, she is sometimes referred to as “the artist
formally known as Libby,” which was the name she went by at one
time.
She loves working with and making paper. In Toronto, she made
her living by making invitations for clients of the Japanese Paper
Place. She
launched them
into the
wedding invitation business, and loved the opportunity to help
clients set the tone for their wedding. She believes the invitation
is the
single most
important
part of a wedding, showing the unique taste of the bride and groom,
along with a hint of what is to come on the day of the wedding.
Extending her artistic creativity, at that time, Benson used to
make the envelopes to go with her invitations. She is also well
known for
her copperplate
calligraphy
and occasionally teaches classes in it and other lettering styles.
As well, she teaches card making, rubber stamping and drawing Celtic
knotwork.
For
10 years,
she taught all of these artistic endeavors for the Etobicoke Board
of Education Adult Day School. And, she was the calligrapher in
the “Hands Over Time” series that TVO produced.
“I feel that every person that comes to learn is also a teacher.
It is a two-way teaching; they are here to learn and, in turn,
to teach me. Some very precious and treasured people have shown
me the way...I am a guide for others. My dream is to continue
this exchange on a one-to-one basis and through teaching what
I know in group settings. The more I learn, the more I offer
to share as a teacher with each client, and then it is their
choice whether they want to learn more.”
She adds, “When you
know better, you will do better.”
She believes spirituality is
an important part of her work and who she is. “When you are working
with a person, you need to honor all of their life’s experience – mental,
emotional and physical because that is what influences their
spirituality. I don’t separate out spirituality; it is who I
am. I don’t analyze it in others; it is something you are,” she
explains.
“I am truly blessed,” she says, looking around her house at the walls adorned with her calligraphic personal growth sayings. “Here
in Muskoka, I have my family of choice and I am grateful to be here. I am evolving
as a spiritual being and living here is an inspiring, expanding experience. Every
day, I have my eyes drink in the beauty surrounding me.” |